Home: Where My Coping Skills Go to Die
If the holidays leave you feeling like you’re losing progress, here’s the truth: You’re not slipping. You’re stretching.
Growth doesn’t mean you never get pulled back into old patterns.
Growth means you notice it. You feel it. And slowly—year after year—you choose differently, even if it’s just by a few degrees.
That counts.
That’s movement.
And honestly? That’s resilience in its realest form.
Spoiler Alert: My Comfort Zone Wasn’t That Comfortable After All
We’ve all heard it: “Growth starts at the end of your comfort zone.” But if you’re anything like many millennials — especially those who are anxious, neurodivergent, perfectionistic, or plain ol’ tired — stepping outside your comfort zone can feel more like free-falling into panic.
So, how do we actually expand our comfort zones without ending up burnt out, dissociating, or spiraling? The answer lies in understanding what a comfort zone actually is — and how to stretch it without snapping.
