Another Year Around the Sun (and yes i’m still messy)
Because for me, birthdays aren't just a party — they’re a checkpoint. A moment to pause (you know I was gonna say it), breathe, and pivot. It’s the one day a year where I give myself full permission to ask the big questions. Not the “Where should I brunch?” kind of questions (although very important), but more like:
How have I grown this year?
What old stories am I still believing about myself?
Where does my inner child need a hug — or maybe a juice box and a nap?
Yep. We’re going there. Welcome to my annual birthday meltdown/inventory/self-hug ritual.
Burnout Bonfire: Setting Fire to the “Shoulds”
Enter the burnout bonfire. Think of it as a little symbolic ritual for your nervous system. You don’t need an actual fire pit (though, like, live your best witchy life if that’s your thing). This is your chance to check in with yourself before the pressure of New Year’s “glow-up” culture hits. You get to decide what you're leaving behind now — not in January when the self-improvement machine revs back up.